We are soldiering on day by day caring for my 97 year old father. It's hard to see him so slowed down and nearly helpless after growing up under his parenting. He was an energetic, brilliant man who could do almost anything he put his mind to. I learned so much from him.
Now he isn't sure what day of the week it is and needs help with everyday basic tasks. We do whatever we can to make him comfortable and happy, whether it be putting on his favorite TV shows (Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy) to serving him his unending love for another bowl of strawberry ice cream.
We've had doctor visits, a night in the hospital when we though he had a stroke (he didn't) and have a visiting home health nurse and physical therapist several times a week to closely monitor his health.
When the weather cooperates, we have him outside enjoying the sun and fresh air for a change of pace. We get him out to various places as much as we can but it really tires him out so we have to be very careful.
The bottom line is we will keep him here at our home as long as we can, glad to be able to provide a safe and warm environment for him. As for our life, we have put it on hold, we have only limited days with him and would not want to look back and be sorry for not doing enough for him.
The Journey patiently awaits in a nearby storage lot. I try to get over every other week to check up on it. At least once a month I start up the generator and engine and drive it around the storage lot in circles for a bit. When I have more time I take it for a long drive up and down the nearby interstate.
The house batteries are starting to show their age as the are over five years old. I have a list of items I want to take care of this coming spring to get things up to 100%. First on the list is an overall wash, it is amazing how dirty the Journey gets just sitting. At least there are no new bugs stuck on the front.
We are planning a trip in June with the Journey to Disney World's Fort Wilderness with our daughter and grandsons Andrew and Owen. It will be good to get out on the road for a bit. We have been making arrangements for my brother to take my Dad for the time we're away. Haven't quite figured out how we'll juggle him back and forth from SC to NJ and back but we'll find a way.
We've had occasional thoughts of downsizing the Journey to a smaller RV, but at this time it just doesn't make sense. We'd never get a return on the money the Journey cost (ah the joys of a depreciating asset) but we do like the large room and sleeping space (8 beds!) for our Disney visits and trips with the grandkids. So we'll continue to hang on to it. Hard to believe it's 12 years old already, seems like just the other day we drove it brand new off the dealer's lot. It's got a little wear and tear on it but there is a lot of life and miles left in it. Hopefully I have the same! :c)